Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see him smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over him to ease the pain of knowing that he will never be yours.Look in my eyes and you will find me, but look in my heart and you will find you.This is an interesting and thought provoking quote by the late Cavett Robert. It addresses 'neediness': "Most people are walking around, umbilical cord in hand, looking for a new place to plug it in."If you find yourself in love with a person who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.You know you love someone when you want them to be happy even if their happiness means that you're not part of it.I swore to myself it wouldn't happen again. I vowed to myself that this was the end. The end of this longing, this yearning so strong... I said I was over you, but oh I was so wrong.Someone should sue Disney for planting the ideas in little kids heads that every girl has a prince and everything ends up happily ever after.How do I say goodbye to someone I never really had? Why do my tears fall so endlessly for someone who was never really mine? Why is it I miss someone I was never really with? And why do I love someone whose love was never really mine?